Are you taking Wednesday off for a #DayWithoutAWoman, a nationwide event demonstrating the solidarity of women? Then come to the Empty Hand Zen Center for tea, talk and meditation led by Guiding Teacher Reverend Konin Cardenas. We'll enjoy each others' company and discuss the Zen teachings of liberation and equality for women. 4:00 pm at 45 Lawton Street, New Rochelle, NY
Ananda turned to the Buddha and said, "This is half of the holy life: admirable friendship, admirable companionship, admirable camaraderie." The Buddha replied, "Don't say that, Ananda. Don't say that. Admirable friendship, admirable companionship, admirable camaraderie is actually the whole of the holy life."
The historical Buddha, Shakyamuni, is quoted in the Upaddha Sutra as having said that dharma friendships are the whole of our spiritual life. In the Sutra he goes on to say that just as his students have depended on him for spiritual friendship, and have thereby been able to pursue the Noble Eightfold Path of practice, so too each of us depends on our spiritual friends to help us walk the path. This is a teaching about sangha. It means that the Buddha and Ananda, our Dharma teachers, and all of our fellow practitioners are our personal sangha.
But what is it that makes a sangha? Each one of us might have a different answer to this question. Originally, in the Buddha's time, Sangha meant the community of women and men who were ordained as nuns and monks. At that time, ordination was sometimes as simple as the Buddha saying, "Come monk." Still there was a strong sense of renunciation, and a person took on a difference appearance and lifestyle when they became part of the early Sangha.
Over the centuries various Buddhist traditions have evolved from the historical Buddha's teachings and, in modern day Zen, sangha is understood to mean the fourfold sangha of lay women, lay men, ordained women and ordained men. Thus, anyone who is a Zen practitioner is part of the Zen sangha. It can include people of any age, any background, any culture or skin color, and any amount of practice experience.
For me, sangha means the people who share an intention to live an awakening life, a life that returns again and again to the work of bringing compassion and wisdom into our hearts and into the world. Without this shared intention and the actions that make it come alive, we cannot really call ourselves part of a sangha. Both things are necessary - the intention and the action. It is work, but it is the most worthwhile kind of work you can do if you want to have peace of mind.
Thus, taking refuge in sangha is one of the key vows of a Buddhist. You may appreciate the teaching of Buddhism, and that may or may not make you a Buddhist. You may enjoy the people, places and things associated with Buddhist practice, and that may or may not make you a Buddhist. To take refuge is to turn for guidance to Buddha understood as awakened nature, the Dharma understood as the teachings, and the Sangha understood as the people who make these teachings present in the world. Once you take refuge, then you are ready to take the vows.
At times like these, when we are again and again faced with the brevity of human life, it is even more important to take refuge in the sangha. And, as the words "companionship and camaraderie" imply, the sangha restores itself, renews itself by coming together. Centuries ago nuns and monks would walk for miles to gather together on the full moon and the new moon. They did this so that they might hear the teachings, and share with their dharma friends about how their practice had been going. For these reasons, we too need to come together in the zendo, sometimes in silence and sometimes making joyful noise. We can only manifest the many aspects of sangha by gathering together for the activities of practice.
So I invite you to make the effort to find your sangha - whether by walking, driving, or flying - for the sheer joy of being around others who are also on this path. I invite you to return to our shared intention, to our personal, embodied dharma connection. I invite you to be the sangha, manifest the path, come.
Yesterday I had the opportunity to spend the day with a group of women who were offering a daylong Introduction to Buddhist Chaplaincy. It was a day full of heartfelt sharing, both by those interested in exploring the possibilities of this work, and those of us who were giving the introduction. My friend and fellow chaplain Eric Nefstead also came by to share his wit and wisdom around the path to professional chaplaincy work.
During the panel on "A Day in the Life of a Chaplain," I spoke a bit about how I became interested in chaplaincy. For me, the work of being by the side of people who are in need of a spiritual friend and guide is one which arises from Zen practice. It is zazen off the cushion. Just as in zazen, I bring an intention to be present with whatever is, to have some curiosity about it, and to hold it with compassion. I also bring the intention not to provide pat solutions, but to ask the questions which help illuminate the path.
Daylong Leaders far left and far right: Revs. Jennifer Block and Daijaku Kinst. Panelists from second to the left: Rev. Konin Cardenas, Dawn Neal, and Rev. Jennifer Lemus.
This work is intimate and valuable as a practice of its own. Chaplaincy, and in fact any work in which you place yourself at the service of another, shows you your growing edges, your limitations. It reflects back to you all of the aspects of birth, illness, old age, and death that you haven't yet come to terms with. What a helpful way to encounter the four messengers again and again.
Yesterday, I also noticed how the discussion turned to commitment and engagement in practice after the three "day in the life" panelists spoke. It was as if the people in the room were able to turn back to their own intention and show up for themselves by hearing how we'd also shown up for ourselves. For me it is the beauty of sangha, the community of practitioners. Today, I bow to my fellow presenters, and to those in attendance for our efforts to be of benefit to all beings.